Trip Blogs

We had such a fantastic week with everyone, and it was truly a peak experience for us. Looking forward to future adventures in beautiful places with you beautiful people!

- D & L (Tuscany 2024)

Fresh from our first Sapio Tours trip, we want to thank you for curating such a wonderful, intimate Tuscany getaway!  You’ve created a lifestyle vacation that is different than others and for those seeking a cultural experience that includes the lifestyle mindset.
This is a laid back trip where the travel, culture, history, and dining aspect are an equally important part as the sexiness and connections you’ll make throughout the week.  
We appreciated the balance of activities and free time so each couple has a chance to do what they want whether that be more sightseeing, relaxing, recharging, or making intimate connections.  

We tend to be a bit reserved at first, but everyone’s friendly, welcoming attitudes really set us at ease and we were able to open up.  The Mrs’ favorite part of the week was the first night’s dinner and the women’s breakout group.  The Mr’s favorite part was the spontaneous deep conversations with other couples. And of course the lingerie night: it was a scene straight from a sexy movie. We couldn’t believe this was our real life!
-A & W (Tuscany 2024)

The group was fantastic! Kate & Liam do an amazing job of picking the right mix of people - we met so many new and interesting friends!

They take care of all the planning - from art history all the way to where to get the best gelato. They dealt with the stress and let the group enjoy the experience!

This trip was amazing - it was the perfect mix of planned activities and open choices. Would recommend to both newbies and experienced travelers!

- D & K (Tuscany 2024)

We are on our way home with happy and grateful hearts. This week was amazing. I am still in awe of this wonderful group. It was a gift and my heart is overflowing. Everyone made this week special and I feel I have made friends to last a lifetime.

- M & M (Tuscany 2024)

Highly recommended! I had never attended a women's retreat and had my reservations, but I needn't have feared. Kate and Catherine created a safe and welcoming space. Having us write a bio-, introducing ourselves to each other weeks ahead of time and connecting via chat to get to know one another set a great tone. The podcasts and resources beforehand helped to provide a framework of what was to come. There was structure, but as the groups needs/emotions changed so did the lesson plans. Both Catherine and Kate read the room and pivoted so that the needs of the group could be met.  The house and grounds were beautiful. The sleeping arrangements with private rooms as well as multiple people to a room and bunkbeds created a camp like atmosphere that instead of taking away added to the group's friendship building. A chef was brought in to prepare delicious meals and plenty of wine, cheese and fresh foods where provided. We were in good hands. The women's retreat was a great experience. I would definitely consider other offerings by Sapio Tours.

- Emily (Women's Retreat)

Sapio Tour’s first Women’s Retreat was a beautifully restorative and self-reflective weekend full of people committed to a growth mindset.   Obviously the Kate and Catherine are wonderful humans because the group of women they attracted on this retreat were equally so. Both leaders took great care in making us feel comfortable and secure, which opened us up to being vulnerable and courageous in our deep self-reflective work.  It was so great to start each day on a yoga mat, fill it with writings and reflections and end it in a hot tub!  Looking forward to another one!

- Lisa (Women's Retreat 2024)

Missing the daily buzz of the villas, the chatter and new discoveries. Thank you all for being so approachable, engaging, and kind. Special thank you to Kate and Liam. We never would have made a trip like this without you having set the table. Rather than just a 'vacation', I feel like I've truly travelled for the first time in my life.

- J & R (Crete 2024)

It was a pleasure to spend a week with all of you. Kate and Liam, THANK YOU for curating a beautiful experience and for being such a beacon for this community! Love you!

- J & J (Crete 2024)

Wow! What a trip! Our adventure to Crete was truly extraordinary! The perfect blend of energetic outdoor activities, culturally rich experiences, and (ahem) 'adult playtime' made for an unforgettable journey. We hiked, we explored, we indulged ... and we made memories to last a lifetime. If you're looking for a trip that will leave you feeling energized, inspired, and maybe a little bit naughty, look no further. 

- J & W (Crete 2024)

Sapio Tours facilitated an amazing retreat filled with perfect activities that accommodated all 20+ of us. It was the right mix of 'work' and play with the most inspiring group of women. I left the retreat feeling rejuvenated and lighter than I have felt in years. I am grateful to these women and I will continue to seek out opportunities like these. This is the best gift I've ever received.

-M.B. (Women's Retreat 2024)

Spending time with our wonderful facilitator/hostesses and generous spirited new friends reminded me of who I was: an activist, mentor and creative. And if I just say yes, she is who I am, moving forward. I didn’t take my clothes off, but thank you so much for helping me lay myself bare. 

- B. (Women's Retreat 2024)

Wow!  I enjoyed every minute of this incredible weekend. My heart is full, my brain is full, my joy bank account is full!  Thank you—each of you—for bringing your beautiful selves—heart, mind and soul—to share with me, with us.  I feel more grounded and good than I felt before I met y’all.  

- M (Women's Retreat 2024)

I couldn't have planned a more perfect event. The surroundings were beautiful and the food divine. But what really stood out was the incredible care and planning that went into the retreat activities themselves. Everything built perfectly on the last experience from yoga, to communal meals, to quiet time and to deep self exploration. I left energized and exhausted with more peace and hope than I've ever felt before. I will certainly do this again if the opportunity presents itself. Thanks for putting such a unique event together!- - T.K. (Women's Retreat 2024)

Wow. Just wow. A truly transformative experience.  I absolutely disconnected from daily life and focused on me for the weekend. I can’t remember the last time I put me first! And boy, was it worth it! I learned so much from Kate and Catherine and the sisterhood that developed between 21 relative strangers was amazing.-Stacy W (Women's Retreat 2024)

This retreat absolutely changed my life. As someone brand new to the lifestyle, I was relieved to feel so welcomed and safe. I came in feeling so stuck in my personal insecurities and shame about carving an unconventional path with my marriage. After 4 days with the most amazing group of dynamic, badass, but also kind and vulnerable women, I know now that I am part of an incredible tribe brave enough to demand more out of life. 

- Erin (Women's Retreat 2024)

The Women of the Lifestyle Retreat offered a truly transformative experience for those seeking to explore ethical non-monogamy in a supportive and empowering environment. Bringing together a dynamic group of like-minded women from all over the US and Canada, this retreat was a testament to the power of the lifestyle community, self-discovery, and personal growth.   What truly set this retreat apart was the sense of community and camaraderie fostered among the participants. Despite coming from different backgrounds, ages, and experiences, the women who attended the retreat formed strong bonds and connections, supporting and uplifting each other throughout the weekend. It was truly inspiring to see how these women came together to share their stories, offer advice, and celebrate each other's successes.   Whether you're new to ethical non-monogamy or a seasoned veteran, this retreat offers something for everyone. From the beautiful location to the supportive community to the transformative workshops, it's an experience that will stay with you long after the weekend is over. If you are looking to explore ethical non-monogamy or have years of lifestyle experience, I highly recommend this safe, supportive, and empowering environment. Thank you for a truly unforgettable experience! 

- Audrey (Women's Retreat 2024)

This was the retreat I never knew I needed, and never thought I’d find. I am able to show up as my full, authentic self, with all the beautiful, complex, ugly, scared and vulnerable parts I carry with me. I have been figuratively and physically held in my pain and joy. I have laughed hysterically and cried hot tears. I have connected with strong, dynamic and inspiring women and I have retreated by myself. Here I can be both.

-Alli (Women's Retreat 2024)

Kate arranged a wide variety of events that gave us a taste of the culture, music, dance, arts, and food of Crete. This trip was the sexiest, funnest, most knowledge-learning experience we've ever had. We  loved the personal touch of her invoking her own experiences and knowledge to our experience (both culturally and lifestyle-wise). Best adult trip ever! Thank you! 

-Dee & Fil (Crete 2023)

Having the lodging, food, excursions, and transportation arranged for us removed so many of the normal stressors of travelling abroad, and allowed my husband and I to really connect and have so much fun together. Staying in the villa with other great couples was awesome too; the group of 18 was large enough to provide a good variety of personalities, but small enough to be intimate and for real friendships to develop. I’d be happy to repeat this trip every year! 

-C.S. (Crete 2023)

Access to luxury accommodation, clothing-optional pool side time, planned excursions both cultural and laidback, playtime, education, delicious food, new sexy friends and a hike through the Samaria Gorge that blew my mind. Where to next????? 

-Linda & Keith (Crete 2023)

I can't say enough great things about our time in Crete with Sapio Tours. From the hike through the Samaria Gorge to the traditional dinner and Cretan dancing at a taverna, it's clear that Kate and Liam went out of their way to curate an immersive experience that didn't feel rushed, or like we were a group of tourists being herded from one location to the next. 

Crete is a stunning island with a fascinating history and our fellow attendees were thoughtful, curious, and kind. That said, I'm surprised that one of the things I enjoyed most about the trip was the food. As a person committed to a healthy diet, I dread vacations for the fear that I won't have access to good, fresh foods. Thankfully, that wasn't an issue on this trip. In addition to being delicious, the on-site meals coordinated by Sapio Tours were essentially farm-to-table experiences - local ingredients prepared by local chefs. That eliminated the stress of "finding something to eat" and made it easier to enjoy our surroundings.

Do not hesitate to book your trip with Sapio Tours! I can all but guarantee an unforgettable experience.

-J & S (Crete 2023)